Exactly. Very well put. Who am I to judge? A nobody. I agree wholeheartedly with you that only God can judge whether intrinsically evil acts such as homosexual sex, or contraception have been committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent making the culprit guilty of mortal sin. Of course God sees the heart and discerns with precision the circumstances that led the act being committed. At last Picadillo you are agreeing with Pope Francis! Ave Maria!